There is a crisis in men’s mental health. The evidence is everywhere. Men are more likely to feel lonely and reported having fewer friends than their female counterparts. They have higher rates of drop-out in high school, lower rates of attendance at university, and higher rates of unemployment. Substance use disorders are high and 75% of suicides are committed by men. Men are less likely to seek help or address their struggles.

There’s a growing body of work to address why the crisis exists and how to solve it, neither of which present clear answers. Beyond the failure of traditional…


tethr is a peer-to-peer support community for men. The app provides a safe space for men to have open and vulnerable conversations, with the hope of improving the well-being and mental health of men (and all other humans) in the process. As the Digital Content Editor, I get to explore a variety of subjects related to community, mental health and support.

How many hours have you spent doom-scrolling on Twitter or Instagram in the past week? …


tethr is a peer-to-peer support community for men. The app provides a safe space for men to have open and vulnerable conversations, with the hope of improving the well-being and mental health of men (and all other humans) in the process. As part of my work at tethr, I get to explore a variety of subjects related to community, mental health and support.

Social interactions have changed a lot in the last few months, but our need for human connection hasn’t. In the tethr community, we’re always looking for ways to better support each other.

One important, but often overlooked…


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Are you dating someone you genuinely like? Do you think you might want to live with them someday? Why not try it now, when stress levels are at an all-time high and your patience has bottomed out? Potentially save yourself years of indecision by finding out how your worst qualities mesh, today.

The Extreme Living Together Test™ is a 14-day program brought to you by COVID-19 (now with a mandatory, indefinite extension) designed to answer common relationship questions like, “are they seriously going to leave their dishes right in front of the dishwasher every time?” …

Victoria Wiley

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